1.5lbsribeye beefthinly sliced against the grain, or pre-sliced bulgogi beef
3tbspsoy sauceor tamari for gluten-free
2tbspgochujangKorean fermented chili paste
1tbspbrown sugarpacked
1tbsptoasted sesame oil
4clovesgarlicgrated or finely minced
1tspfresh gingergrated
2tbspAsian peargrated, or substitute kiwi
1tbsprice vinegar
1tspblack pepperfreshly ground
For the Bowls
2headsbutter lettuceleaves separated and kept whole
1cuppurple cabbagethinly shredded
2medium carrotsjulienned or grated
1English cucumberthinly sliced into half moons
3green onionsthinly sliced
2tbsptoasted sesame seeds
1handfulfresh cilantro leavesoptional
1tbspneutral oilfor the pan, such as avocado or vegetable oil
For the Spicy Sesame Mayo (optional drizzle)
3tbspmayonnaise
1tbspgochujang
1tspsesame oil
1tsplime juicefreshly squeezed
For the Quick-Pickled Daikon (optional but recommended)
1cupdaikon radishpeeled and thinly sliced into rounds
3tbsprice vinegar
1tspsugar
0.5tspsalt
Instructions
Marinate the Beef
In a large bowl, whisk together the soy sauce, gochujang, brown sugar, sesame oil, garlic, ginger, grated Asian pear, rice vinegar, and black pepper until fully combined.
Add the thinly sliced beef to the marinade and toss well to coat every piece. Cover and refrigerate for at least 30 minutes, or up to 24 hours for maximum flavor. The longer it marinates, the more tender and deeply flavored the beef will be.
Prepare the Quick-Pickled Daikon (optional)
Combine rice vinegar, sugar, and salt in a small bowl and stir until the sugar and salt dissolve. Add the sliced daikon and toss to coat. Let sit at room temperature for at least 15 minutes. The daikon will turn slightly translucent and taste bright and tangy.
Make the Spicy Sesame Mayo
Whisk together the mayonnaise, gochujang, sesame oil, and lime juice in a small bowl until smooth. Taste and adjust — add more gochujang for heat or a touch more lime for brightness. Set aside.
Cook the Beef
Heat a grill pan, cast iron skillet, or outdoor grill over very high heat until smoking hot. Add the neutral oil and swirl to coat.
Working in small batches — do not crowd the pan — add the marinated beef in a single layer. Let it cook undisturbed for 1 to 2 minutes until charred and caramelized on the bottom, then flip and cook for another 1 minute. The beef should be slightly crispy at the edges and deeply caramelized. Remove and repeat with remaining batches.
Transfer all the cooked beef to a serving platter or bowl.
Assemble the Bowls
Arrange the butter lettuce cups on a large platter or in individual bowls. Fill each cup with a portion of the hot caramelized beef.
Top with shredded purple cabbage, julienned carrots, sliced cucumber, and pickled daikon if using.
Drizzle generously with the spicy sesame mayo or extra gochujang sauce. Scatter toasted sesame seeds and sliced green onions over the top. Add fresh cilantro if desired.
Serve immediately while the beef is hot and the lettuce is cold for the full contrast of temperatures.
Notes
Meal prep tip: Cook the beef and prep the vegetables up to 4 days ahead. Store everything separately and assemble fresh. The beef reheats beautifully in a hot skillet for 2 to 3 minutes. For gluten-free, use tamari instead of soy sauce. For a vegetarian version, substitute extra-firm tofu or king oyster mushrooms — press tofu dry, slice thin, and use the same marinade. Freeze beef for 20 to 30 minutes before slicing for paper-thin cuts.